To My Male Friends

Not many people know that today is White Day. It’s not popular here but very popular in Japan and South Korea.

Actually this post is dedicated to my male friends. Girls, don’t be jealous ok? Not that I don’t appreciate our friendship and never dedicate any post for you people. We have our own girly secrets 😉 Give the guys a break today.

Male friends… I have many of them compare to female friends. I don’t know why but I’m sure some girls agree with me as one of my female friends also got more male friends than female friends. You know who you are 😉

I think I blogged about it before. I always have a very close male friend in every single phase of my life. We ended up as good friends, it’s all platonic. However, there were some with romantic feelings at the beginning but ended up we didn’t go further. We just stayed as friends as the feelings just subside on its own. When we talked about it, we would laugh at ourselves for being silly to have feelings for each other last time.

I’m not sure whether it’s just me or otherwise, I feel more comfortable talking with my male friends about some problems that I’m facing rather than with female friends. With my male friends we can talk non-stop about just anything under the sun from girl talk to man talk. Strangely I can’t really share many things with most of my female friends, usually just girl talk.

Most of the time, if you see me talking about going out with my friend(s), 98% would be male friend(s). Most of the time, I will ended up be the only girl in the group.

Sometimes if I do go out one-to-one with my male friend who are single, we would always be mistaken as couple by his friends or my friends that haven’t seen us for long time. It’s quite funny. Sometimes if we were in playful mood, we’ll just play along(as in just smile to them, didn’t say anything at all) and later laughed over it.

I seldom go out with male friends that are attached because it’s not very nice to be seen with unless their other halves know about it else I will usually stay away because usually our closeness will cause jealousy to their other halves so it’s better to play safe.

I guess male and female friendship will usually slow down when one of them are attached, there is no way both of you can maintain the usual closeness. Agree? There are always some degree of differences between male and female. It’s quite hurt and sad sometimes knowing that you both can no longer “play” like you both used to.

For you guys(you know who you are), thanks for everything. Thanks for the company and help whenever I need, be it shopping, traveling, dining or just anything and the rides, trusting me with your expensive gadgets(those DSLRs that were place under my care while you are away hahaha…) and your secrets, and many more. Most importantly, thanks for the respect, the trust, the understanding, and not taking advantage of me.

Be it male or female friends, the one that will go tru’ the ups and downs with you are your true friends besides your family.

Anyway, wish you guys a happy White Day.