To Laugh or To Cry?

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You know how sometimes you encounter a situation whereby you don’t know whether to laugh or to cry on some responses or actions?

A: Eh… Long time no kai kai lo…
B: You don’t come find me or ask me le.
A: Got le… But when ask you, you always say “dunno”, “tired”, “sigh”, “not interested” and so on. Always give responses like these, ask also no use la.
B: *speechless*
A: Kia! Let’s go [insert any place’s name you want]
B: Don’t ask me!

Tell me! You want to laugh or cry when you read this? It’s like you are walking with somebody and then when it comes to a door, you both are supposed to walk in together yet you got slammed by the door right on your face.

From My Angle

3rd Day of Moo’s Year

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Finally got the photos!! Yippe!! We planned to gather at Lee’s house this year because most were not in the mood of visiting and prefer to just gather at a place. Luckily we ended up using Lee’s house instead of going to some cafe for it else Lee and I would be really really pissed hahaha… Everyone was practically late for almost 2 hours *sweat*


At least they came except Ann as she was having bad case of food poisoning. So here’s our group photo. It’s a must every year. I’m squashed -.-” Khoon How, since when you become so big??!?! My expression is weird coz I almost coughed.


See this photo? (Why so many noise one?) You know who he is? Handsome hoh? Cute hoh? I’m sure those that watch Astro AEC channel will definitely know who this guy is. I’m sure many fans are going to kill me for having such close encounter with him yet not knowing who he was. Not even after I took my photo with him. *LOL* This will make his fans feel even more like killing me ;p I just joined in the fun because I saw people got so excited taking photo with him hahaha… So I requested for one also, kiasu mar…

Then, everyone exclaimed, “she’s going to post it in her blog!!” WAH! Paiseh ah!! I immediately asked him, “you won’t charge me for it right?”. Luckily he’s not charging me hahaha…

He turned out to be Lee’s brother’s friend and he was paying Lee’s brother a visit. He is 何海其(“He Hai Qi”, I don’t know his English name ;p), one of the presenters for AEC’s Evening Edition. He’s our very own Kuching kia.

Guess what? Everyone in our gang didn’t know him except Lee because we don’t have Astro at home! *LOL*

That’s all for the third day.

p/s: Lee, you didn’t send me your pic, how am I going to post it for you?

Personal Events

Are you a REASON, a SEASON, or a LIFETIME?

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I know I’ve been very rude and harsh to you. I know that people is attacking me now. I purposely did so as I know you won’t care about it also. I just want to satisfy my own dissatisfactions and also to gain traffic(HAHAHA!). I’m selfish, you are too.

I just cannot see you destroying yourself like this, that goes the same to other friends of yours. What to do? We tried the soft way, it won’t work; we tried the hard way, it won’t work also. At least we know that we are not going to give up on you. What we can do now is hope and pray for you to wake up soon.

I don’t hope for any forgiveness nor apology from you. You had apologized to me several times but all I can say is that, I cannot accept your apologies. No point. You have to apologize to your parents that had brought you up because you are destroying whatever they had given to you and their hope for you.

Destroying your body by drinking and drinking, destroying your self-esteem by falling into that stupid trap and not willing to climb out of it even though you had been given with so many chances to do so, destroying your friendship that you had built all these while and etc. You know it’s wrong but you prefer to stay on. Destroying everything just because of one person that you just got to know for one month that is making your life upside down.

What else can we do? Nothing I guess… As you are already in deep shit. If you do read this, I hope it will help you in getting your feet back into your life. I know you won’t be reading this and the following article but I would love to share this meaningful article with everyone out there.

This is one article that I came across long long long time ago and it had more or less gave me some strengths whenever I need it and I also know some people that find it useful. Here you go…

When someone is in your life for a REASON… It is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are! They are there for a REASON you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realise is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent has been answered. And now is it time to move on.

Then people come into your life for a SEASON… because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a SEASON.

LIFETIME relationship teach you lifetime lessons: things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

Thank you for being a part of my life.

-Adapted from The Borneo Post, Nature & Health, 16 Dec 2001-

So? Which one are you? Which one you want to be? May God bless you. Amen.

Heart Matters

Suddenly the “War” Started

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Just as I thought I got nothing to update, suddenly the fireworks started and it’s much more exciting than the eve.

More varieties and everyone was trying to outdo each other. So funny. What are they keeping it for? For time like this? To compete among each other? I thought the best time to do so is during the eve not on the fifth day. Hmm… Wonder, wonder…

I managed to capture some and they are so much better and nicer than the previous photos. Enjoy the photos:




As usual, those interesting ones are always at the street light *LOL* Coz that’s the direction where the rich people is staying at my area hahaha…

Started again now… WOW!

Uniquely Kuching

4th Day of Moo’s Year

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I’ll update about 3rd day when I got the photos.

Just a quick one, I’m terribly sick today. I can’t remember when is the last time I’m sick until like this.

This morning, when I woke up, my head was so giddy and my body was extremely painful with every single movement even with slight cough or sneeze. So painful! I tried to stand up and every single part of my body got no support at all, just like a rag doll -.- My throat was so painful and I almost thought that I won’t be able to talk at all. Luckily later in the morning it got a bit better and I could move around but still very slow pace.

Then went visiting with Lee to Lee Ling’s, Audrey’s and Ann‘s house. I couldn’t really talk much as it would trigger my cough as a slightest cough or sneeze is enough to make my abdomen very very painful as if my internal organs were all dislocated after the continuous cough and sneezing last night. Very very sick 🙁

Found these cute cookies at Audrey’s house:

Rain for more than 48 hours, still raining now. Many places got into flood again. Everyone seems like preparing for another round of flood. If the rain doesn’t stop, we might see similar flood again. These were taken at Batu Kawa:

Very very sick now… Going to sleep now… Good night.

Personal Events, Uniquely Kuching