I’m out of things to blog for the time being. So… I’m just going to share some views of mine from my observations. I wonder… What are the reasons for people to decide that they want to get married? You might not agree with it or you might have the same view as mine, whatever it is, I’m still going to list them out.
1. Both are ready to embark on the next phase of life because they are mature enough to do so which this is really good.
2. There are some that got married because of “accident”. For our culture, it’s a shame to the family, therefore they force the couple to get married to save face. It’s ok if the couple is ready and they do accept the responsibility but there are many that I notice are just opposite. They got married in a speed of lightning and divorce in a speed of lightning too. Sorry, I do look down on people like this. What’s the point of getting married like this? You want to save your face, at the end you also lose your face. Spent so much on the lavish wedding and ended up with ugly divorce that cost a lot of money and fight for child custody. So troublesome. Serve you right! People! If you want to have sex, go ahead but please be responsible to yourself and your partner. Sex is only for those that are mature and responsible bunch. Don’t do it if you are still a kid, it doesn’t matter you are in your 20’s or 30’s or whatever, as long that you don’t know how to be a responsible person then you are a kid. Got it? You will not understand this if you’re a kid. Simple.
3. Some got married because you want to escape from your family problem. This is stupid! You are not even sincere at all. You just want to escape. Usually this type will not think carefully before jump into a marriage. Stupid enough that they thought they can escape but they ended up in another set of problem for themselves in their own marriage and with their in-laws in all kind of aspects because they don’t plan and think carefully. They only think about how to ESCAPE! HAHAHA!!! I’m going to laugh at you, such idiots! It happens that I know several people that are like this and it happens that I don’t like them too, so I’m going to laugh, laugh, laugh and laugh. See people that I don’t like suffer is such a bliss!
4. Some got married becuase they have some motives behind. Usually it’s for money. I don’t think I need to elaborate further on this. You know, I know. Very straight forward.
Hmmm… Can only think of these 4. So… I have no conclusion hahaha… They are just parts and parcels of our life and everyone deserves to have their own views and deserve to look down on people(don’t say you don’t, I’m sure you do look down on certain people, you are also human) and being “evil”.