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Are you a REASON, a SEASON, or a LIFETIME?

Posted on January 31, 2009January 31, 2009 By sweet surrender 6 Comments on Are you a REASON, a SEASON, or a LIFETIME?

I know I’ve been very rude and harsh to you. I know that people is attacking me now. I purposely did so as I know you won’t care about it also. I just want to satisfy my own dissatisfactions and also to gain traffic(HAHAHA!). I’m selfish, you are too.

I just cannot see you destroying yourself like this, that goes the same to other friends of yours. What to do? We tried the soft way, it won’t work; we tried the hard way, it won’t work also. At least we know that we are not going to give up on you. What we can do now is hope and pray for you to wake up soon.

I don’t hope for any forgiveness nor apology from you. You had apologized to me several times but all I can say is that, I cannot accept your apologies. No point. You have to apologize to your parents that had brought you up because you are destroying whatever they had given to you and their hope for you.

Destroying your body by drinking and drinking, destroying your self-esteem by falling into that stupid trap and not willing to climb out of it even though you had been given with so many chances to do so, destroying your friendship that you had built all these while and etc. You know it’s wrong but you prefer to stay on. Destroying everything just because of one person that you just got to know for one month that is making your life upside down.

What else can we do? Nothing I guess… As you are already in deep shit. If you do read this, I hope it will help you in getting your feet back into your life. I know you won’t be reading this and the following article but I would love to share this meaningful article with everyone out there.

This is one article that I came across long long long time ago and it had more or less gave me some strengths whenever I need it and I also know some people that find it useful. Here you go…

When someone is in your life for a REASON… It is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are! They are there for a REASON you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realise is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent has been answered. And now is it time to move on.

Then people come into your life for a SEASON… because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a SEASON.

LIFETIME relationship teach you lifetime lessons: things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

Thank you for being a part of my life.

-Adapted from The Borneo Post, Nature & Health, 16 Dec 2001-

So? Which one are you? Which one you want to be? May God bless you. Amen.

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Comments (6) on “Are you a REASON, a SEASON, or a LIFETIME?”

  1. Sweet Lavender says:
    January 31, 2009 at 6:08 pm

    Nice article! Thanks for sharing. 🙂
    But still i dunno which one I want to be..
    Hopelessly to be in love.. -.-“

  2. sweet surrender says:
    January 31, 2009 at 6:25 pm

    Sweet lavender, yea… I have no idea too but at least when there’s something happen, you can see thing in a different perspectives.

  3. Choonie says:
    February 1, 2009 at 5:50 pm

    I am still wondering what actually happens. Seems like the man is very unhappy. I don’t know the reason why he stays on if he is always so sad. Hope to read more later. hahaha… I think I treat it like a HK series. Too much of Gem of Life for me.

  4. sweet surrender says:
    February 1, 2009 at 6:06 pm

    Choonie, yealo… So unhappy, just let go what for stay on? Summore, it’s only a month, not a year!?!? Less than one month already like this, what’s more to say a year or two -.-” We are all very shocked to see him get himself into such shit, this is not his style as far as we know. All we can think of is that his wire got short circuit lo… WAKAKAKA!!!

  5. cdason says:
    February 1, 2009 at 10:21 pm

    Emotional eyh…. Can give Justin a good run for his money…

  6. sweet surrender says:
    February 1, 2009 at 11:10 pm

    Hahaha…

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