DAMN! I’m so piss with some people. Met a lot lately. Don’t be perasan ok?!?! I’m not referring to you. If you feel it, then think about it, you think what you’re doing is right? Maybe… As you only think of yourself.
I so hate people wanting to meet me last minute without making an appointment(be it work or personal matter) with me or not bother to ask me whether I’m convenient or not and just assume that one phone call would get me flying to their way to serve or meet them! Then when I rejected, they would summarise that I didn’t have any dedication in whatever I’m doing or I didn’t give them face as a friend. Excuseeee me! Who do you think you are?!?! You are busy, I’m not busy?
If it’s personal matter, it would depend on my mood. The worst is in work as they think that you must follow what they said as they are the one paying you. I’m sure we all have experiences with people like this. We all hate it!
Being in this field(you know what I work as, if you don’t then hahaha… Find out for yourself) for 4 years going on to 5 years, I had encountered many people like this. Usually people like this will give you many unwanted troubles and non-sense. I wouldn’t bother to entertain them anymore. It just can’t justify the cost I’m spending be it monetarily, mentally, and physically.
No dedication? Bo xim? You better check on yourself. If you do have dedication or “wu xim”, then you should make an effort to block a time with me to meet up with me instead of giving me a call any time, any place and expect me to meet you right after the phone call. Of course, I won’t give in if this happen unless it’s life and death situation. I never give in to request like this. I have to protect my own interest, I also have my own things to do, I’m also as busy as you are.
If you tell me that you are busy, you don’t know what time you are free and you will call me when you are free so that we can meet up. Hello?!?!? So, you expect me to wait for your call the whole day and cannot tend to my own things or have to give up on other appointment(s) just because I have to meet you? If you don’t call the whole day or call at the very last moment saying that you can’t seem to find time to meet me then you are only wasting my time!
I know I can go ahead with my own agendas but what if by the time you call me, I’m not convenient to answer your call or I’m in another meeting with other people, then how? That’s why it’s important to make an appointment in advance, block a time so that we can both spare that amount of time to meet up and dedicate ourselves to what we want to do.
So? You think people like this is dedicated and very wu xim? Do you like to waste your time with this kind of people? Sigh…