Skip to content
  • Instagram
  • Facebook
  • TikTok
  • Twitter
  • Youtube
Welcome to Sweet Surrender

Welcome to Sweet Surrender

Previously known as sweetsurrender.99.com.my

  • Home
  • About
  • Contact
  • Disclosure Policy

July is Coming…

Posted on June 28, 2009June 29, 2009 By sweet surrender 9 Comments on July is Coming…

How time flies… We are going into the 7th month of 2009. Soon 2010 will be here in no time!

I haven’t fill my income tax form! -.-”

Must get my assignments done within next week.

Another randomness before I go to bed. Too many things to do and got too much distractions. That’s why you see another randomness from me.

It seems like wedding bells are ringing around the corner from people that I know and also people that I know but don’t know me ;p I will have one to attend next Saturday but the funny thing is that it’s the wedding of my friend’s brother instead of his *LOL* When he invited us to go, we were like, “it’s not your wedding, it’s your bro’s. So weird!”

Come to think of it… Somebody(you know who you are ;p) shot me the question yesterday, “Irene! When are you getting married?”, I was stunned and didn’t know how to answer. The fact is that I don’t know and I don’t think I’m even ready for a marriage life. I still have lots of things to accomplish. If I am to get married, many things cannot be done anymore because I’ll be somebody’s wife and my priority and responsibility will be totally changed unless my husband can help me fulfill whatever that I didn’t get to fulfill before marrying him hahaha… If that is possible, then why not? Still, I’m not ready for marriage life hehehe…

Sometimes I envied those friends who got married or have their bf or gf with them but sometimes I feel that I’m so lucky that I have my full freedom to do anything I want without the needs to explain to anyone except my parents ;p Well… Even if I want to tell him, I seldom got the chance, the most I’ll do is just send him an e-mail, then again I will never do something that I am not supposed to do, trust is very important.

However, the thing I hate most with certain people that are attached is that they change. They change into a total stranger even though you had known them for ages! Things that they used to believe and like before now become something “illegal” that as if can cost them their lives and things that they used to hate so much and swore that they will never want to do them even you threatened to “kill” them suddenly become not a big deal.

Problem is that, most of time, you can feel that they are not doing it “naturally”. It feels pretentious and as if being forced. You can see the whole thing affecting other aspects of their lives and people around them too. Isn’t a relationship makes people a better person but how come it makes people loss their identity and got worst? All their good values are gone. Maybe too blind, or too desperate, or too clingy, or too insecure, whatever!

Not only that, they also started to like to talk a lot of hmmm… How to say in English? In Chinese is “feng liang hua”. Really cannot stand this kind of people.

For example:
A: Sigh… I don’t have a bf/gf, I wish I have one, my life is so incomplete and meaningless.
B: Aiya… Last time I also didn’t have bf/gf but still ok and could live, no problem one.

Yeah right!??! You can say like this now coz you have one. If you don’t have one, I’m sure you won’t say like this. You will surely lament about being incomplete and meaningless too.

Ah well…

All right! Time to sleep. Good night!

From My Angle, Randomness

Post navigation

Previous Post: Today…
Next Post: Food Tasting @ The Banquet

Comments (9) on “July is Coming…”

  1. cell says:
    June 29, 2009 at 1:21 am

    Irene,

    People always change whether they got married, divorced, won a lottery or fallen down a stair. You are constantly changing too it is just harder to see.

  2. Rose says:
    June 29, 2009 at 11:02 am

    That is why they said “love is blind”

  3. sweet surrender says:
    June 29, 2009 at 11:11 am

    Yea… People constantly change(for good or bad) and the worst is that they become so blind until give troubles to people around them. Just some people, not everyone is like that.

  4. curious_girl says:
    June 29, 2009 at 11:31 am

    The significant other in your life isn’t supposed to complete you, but they’re there to complement your completeness. Having a bf/gf isn’t all happiness and clouds and rainbows. People who aren’t in a relationship think too much about this and don’t realize that it IS also HARD to be in a relationship because it also needs to be taken care of, kind of like taking care of a baby. It’s not always happy moments, and there will always be tough times. It takes work, patience and lots of compromise.

  5. sweet surrender says:
    June 29, 2009 at 11:51 am

    curious girl, yea… it’s meant to complement each other not changing a person into another person that you want him/her to be.

  6. Jy Shops says:
    June 29, 2009 at 1:43 pm

    ya, time really flies, it’s like cny is just yesterday..

    hard to belief it’s already half of the year!

  7. sweet surrender says:
    June 29, 2009 at 2:36 pm

    Jy, yea… Time is really flying fast.

  8. jam says:
    July 1, 2009 at 2:07 pm

    You think too much about the marriage thingy, haha… Fill up your tax form first la!

  9. sweet surrender says:
    July 1, 2009 at 3:27 pm

    jam, I want to fill also cannot coz ppl didn’t give me the figures. Finally got it done yesterday and submitted hahaha…

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Tweets by irenelaw

My NFT


ADOPT A SUNBIRD

I'm here too...

Lovebellbelle @ Instagram
Lovebellbelle @ Facebook
Lovebellbelle @ YouTube
Lovebellbelle @ TikTok

Latest Comments

  1. CatsCity Clique Report – Part 2 – Topspot – Welcome to Sweet Surrender on CatsCity Clique Report – Part 1June 26, 2022

    […] After Catscity Clique @ Starbucks Coffee @ KIA, we went to Topspot to meet up for dinner at around…

  2. Garden Steamboat on CatsCity Clique Report – Part 2 – TopspotApril 25, 2022

    […] flow… It’s always served hot. I tell you… This is more worth it than eating that 2.6Kg BBQ prawn…

  3. Try To Withdraw Paypal Fund With My Alrajhi Bank Debit Card (2) on Try To Withdraw Paypal Fund With My Alrajhi Bank Debit Card (1)April 7, 2022

    […] checked my Paypal last night and found out that the status of my withdrawal on Sunday night is […]

  4. sweet surrender on Happy Lunar New Year 2022February 10, 2022

    Happy CNY to you too , Ciana :)

  5. Ciana on Happy Lunar New Year 2022February 9, 2022

    Happy (late) CNY to you too, Irene! :)

Latest Posts

  • Hello from the new server…June 23, 2022
  • How to Make Roti Kok?June 3, 2022
  • A Visit to Borneo Cultures MuseumMay 19, 2022
  • Gonna Be Away For A While…May 10, 2022
  • How to Air Fry Chai Gor? | Puffy Crispy Chai Gor(Vegetarian Goose)April 25, 2022

Featured Reviews

[Read more reviews]



Online Stores

My Cafepress-99Creation
My Cafepress-Vegetable
My Cafepress-Gold Fish
My Cafepress-Swirls & Twirls

Categories

Blogging since 2002. Anything before 2006 is no longer available. It is no longer on this server. Back then, I built my own blog and updated it using HTML. No database or anything. Only started blogging fully with a CMS in 2006. However, whatever was on the Internet will stay on the Internet. So... It should be still somewhere on the Internet. Then again... Why do you want to dig that far?

Copyright © 2022 Welcome to Sweet Surrender.

Powered by PressBook WordPress theme